Stay-at-home or Career Mom?

Yesterday, I told my friend from high school the news. Funny thing, we ended up going to the same university, after Drexel bought Hahnemann University Hospital. Then, we ran into each other in grad school at Drexel (again). Anyways, long but neat history. She has her Ph.D. and now also has two small boys. Her desire to have kids and stay-at-home changed over the years, and also by just being a mom. Our little conversation taught me to take things one day at a time. Not everyone is fulfilled as a stay-at-home mom, and not everyone needs a career outside of the home to be fulfilled. So...guess I'll keep my options open, talk a lot about it with A, and pray for the best for our family.